the question game

i decided to play hilly's question game and if you'd like, you can play too... see the bottom of the post for instructions... :o)

1. is it better to have loved and lost OR to never have loved at all? why?
i would have to say its better to have loved and lost because as hard as it to accept the end of a relationship, you learn an incredible amount about yourself... this may come weeks, months, or even years later but when you finally reach the moment of acceptance of his/your mistakes - its much easier to go on...

2. which blogger would you most like to swap lives with for a day and why?
this is a hard one - i read so many blogs, about so many things: diet, exercise, life, motherhood, gossip, fashion, tv, etc... so if i had to pick one - i would pick amanda because i'm continually amazed at her progress with WW... she's lost over 30 pounds since november and even w/a husband and 2 small children - she continues to make good choices every, single day... i'm also envious of any stay-at-home moms because that's what i want to be...

3. would you rather be skinny with icky hair or have healthy hair and be a bit overweight?
even when i was at my heaviest, i always had awesome hair - i feel it represents my quirky, fun, and crazy personality... i feel incomplete if my hair is not done and styled, sort of like how some feel when they go in pubic without makeup (which i have no problem doing)...

4. what is the greatest song in your world?
god, this one is very hard too because i like so many songs, for so many different reasons... again, if i had to pick one - i would say 'everybody likes to rule the world' by tears for fears - it reminds me of the early 80s, a time of innocence, and a time where i didn't know the pain of my parents splitting, the heartbreak of my college boyfriend, or the sickness that has overtaken my father...

5. where would you like to live most in this world, not including your current location?
i would say southern california, anywhere near san diego - i love the weather, the beaches, the laid-back atmosphere, and all the great shopping... la jolla would be my first pick and then maybe laguna beach... :o)

so if you would like me to interview YOU, here are the instructions to continue...

1. leave me a comment saying, "interview me."
2. i will respond by emailing you five questions - I get to pick the questions.
3. you will update your blog with the answers to the questions.
4. you will include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.
5. when others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.

happy sunday...